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Mike's Story
Greetings, all. I'm taking a shot in the dark and introducing myself to the widesmiles community. My name is Michael, I am 26 years old and currently living in Lubbock Texas, where I am attending Texas Tech University -- I am working towards a PhD in English. I have a cleft lip, and found this website only because another family reachewd out to me regarding their son.
I had never thought to find connections with parents and others affected by cleft lip and palate, or even to network with others who have this ... well, i don't know what to call it. I'll simply say that I never thought to network with people who are like me. But when I found the widesmiles web site, I thought it was *perfect* in so many ways. I've found internet communities that support many professional and entertainment interests, and here I am finding people who share some powerful experiences with me. And now that my parents are on-line, I'll have to share the email and web addresses with them ;-)
Anyway, a question:
First, this little boy I mentioned. He apparently was picked on in the playground. As we all know now, any little difference such as a facial scar can set off other children. I endured more than my share of teasing, but I got through it and I don't quite remember how. I was lucky -- I was a big kid and could intimidate others into leaving me alone ... but how would you suggest this 6-year old handle the bullies?
Finally, I introduced myself as I did for a reaon. My parents were very concerned about my mental development -- but here I am, 26 years old in a good doctoral program in a decent university, learning how to reach out to new communities. I hope, if anyone is interested in hearing more, that my stories can help young parents deal better with their children, and with the inevitable fears and concerns that will come from dealing with the special needs of their children.
I'm glad this list and website exist.